Something so sad can humble you and make you realize that you're rather small in the scheme of things....

Today, I have "met" 2 Bloggers that are also Mothers and both of them have faced a loss ,that I to have. The death of a child. It matters not what the cause, the end result always grabs you the same way.... You feel for them and wonder how , you , yourself made it through this hard and sad time. It's a heart ripping time for any parent. You always think that your child will out live you but in life there are no promises or guarantees. I thought it ironic that as a parent that has faced this , that I found them or they found me but on the same day......
Twist and Skewer's Author, Janice, really has a wonderful blog that talks about her life , the ups the downs and even a bit of the dirty laundry no one usually hears. I loved her blog and spent a great deal of time just lost reading. It was heart warming and real.....

Another blogger Emailed me with a comment not wanting to bum everyone out she made it private. I just knew by the photos she sent me I had to go for a visit (here) and thats where I found 2 very real blogs although I thought that hers was a very sad story but real none the less and very heart wrenching, I enjoyed myself and felt close to her and to her brave and giving Son, Gunnar Becker. I mourn her loss also. She has dedicated her blogs to her Son and the love she has for him is abundant and open.


I have faced the losses these woman have, not in the same manner, but, the out come was quite the same , the loss of a child, or in my case children.
I can't tell you how this feels, but I don't wish you know.
I can't say It doesn't hurt, for that would be a lie.
But when a child comes into your life and heart,
The saddest thing is if you two have to part...
I invite you to visit them and to hear their stories, To even feel their pain......
People often avoid things that make them feel, I am not one of those people, I bleed red blood and I breath real air. I feel real feelings and even if I cry, I cry real tears....
Peace!